So... am I the only person who gets a little upset that basically everyone thinks that being gay is no longer a big deal? Even ignoring that around 30% of world countries have it as a crime, many of which it is punishable by death, just remember that in most of the United States you still can't get married, and you can be fired merely for being gay yet have no legal recourse.
It's like they just see that a few celebrities have come out and everyone's been cool with it, and they forget completely that the average person doesn't have an entire security team to keep the "bullies" off of them.
>>392473 In many areas within the US it still is a big deal, but that continues to decrease. Gay people can still be bullied for other stuff, but if someone goes after them for being gay that's when the security team will pop up. And I have no problem with that (the security team, not the bullying.)
>In many areas within the US it still is a big deal
It's typically a bigger deal in "red states", but even that's changing - for instance, a group of religious leaders/churches have banded together to fight against North Carolina's Amendment One under the argument that banning same-sex marriage limits the religious freedoms of churches that want to ordain same-sex marriages.
The chief problem people seem to have with gay people these days lies in the idea of "the gay mafia" - you know, where the political side of the LGBT community jumps all over anything seen as remotely anti-gay (see that awful Boondocks series finalé episode for an exaggerated example).
Everyone outside of the politics seems fine with letting gay people go on about their business. They don't seem fixated on the idea of gay sex as much as the anti-gay forces (who seem to think about it even more than the pro-gay side).
I've found that the whole getting an instant boner whenever you so much as see or think of something sexual (as well as being in any state of "horny") is basically just a teenager/very-young-adult thing. So long as you're still physically able to become aroused, have an orgasm, and perform if with someone, there is nothing wrong. You're just in control of your body instead of it controlling you.
Personally, I find it's pretty nice not having to masturbate twice a day, every day, to keep the urge down.
>conversation with coworker >these are her exact words, I am not paraphrasing or anything, I swear
>"All men are misogynists by default" >"We live in a fatphobic society, it's disgusting how skinny is the default image" >"All porn is rape" >"Porn teaches that women are objects" >"STUDIES SHOW..." >"I would never date a man if his dick was smaller than 8 inches"
>>393115 (I think he posted in the wrong thread.) I don't understand, can't you just find that stuff in any women's fashion catalog? I mean, they wouldn't be taking part in other sex acts, but for skin/clothing I would think that's not entirely necessary.
>artist does furry stuff as well >see something about musk fetish >think he means rose smell fetish for over a month Apparently its an Australia/New Zealand thing, "musk sticks" are a flavoured candy that tastes like rose and sugar, and we don't have many deer and shit. https://www.candybarsydney.com.au/musk-sticks/1137-pink-musk-sticks-bulk-box-by-kanga-2kg.html desc. on bottom right
>white >browsing ass pov videos >"raceplay" k >its a latino woman dissing black woman asses >its actually kinda funny, not even /pol/ really http://xhamster.com/movies/5544189/worship_mexican_ass_raceplay.html
You know what, fuck it. This is officially my blog thread. Feel free to interrupt.
>find fucking qt girl link: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1466990406 >voice is familiar but can't put finger on it >oh wait >its the same as a really feminine guy from high school (amazing singing voice btw) I don't know if I'll be able to get off to her now that I've realised this relation
>3DPD videos >find girl, she's alright >pornhub says she has a pretty high rank >porn comments (yeah, I know) say she's also known by another name >look up other name >ranked even higher Impressive; she's two of the top 500
Dunno how well versed the people here are in this stuff, but may as well ask and see if anyone does have thoughts.
My girlfriend doesn't like vibrators, dildos, fingering, or oral sex. Just dick. She does masturbate, but has never orgasmed. There are a lot of kinks that she enjoys, though some of them are ones that I can't really assist her with--not out of lack of willingness (I'm completely willing to do most things, even things that are a little weird for me), but because they just don't work coming from me. For example, she's a sub, and while I'm fully willing to play dom to her, she says it doesn't work because she knows my personality too well and knows that I'm too sweet and too easy to win over for her to really feel dominated by me, and just roleplaying domination feels inauthentic to her.
We're poly, so it's not like she can't find satisfaction in these areas elsewhere, but I still want to do as much as I can to be a good lover to her. What options do I really have available to me to improve my lovemaking here? I've got a really girthy dick, so she likes the feel of it, but my lack of length limits the viability of some positions, and the fact that we don't really engage in much foreplay (as going down on her or fingering her beforehand are things she tends not to enjoy) means I have to rely pretty much entirely on thrusting as my means of pleasuring her, and it's hard to keep that up for very long before I get tired and overheated.
Personally, I think that if I can get her to relax and leave things in my hands, I could probably make oral and digital stuff more fun for her, given enough practice. And she likes bondage, so tying her up and then going down on her / fingering her seems totally doable. But I don't want to, like, disrespect her by assuming I know more than she does about her own body. Any thoughts?
>>409365 1) have you tried talking to her about this? 2) I honestly doubt you'll find good advice here, possibly try /adv/ or an appropriate subreddit. Consider the eternal "ask the opposite gender anything" thread on /adv/
>>409373 No yeah, seriously. Joking aside, I really wish you the best and talking about it is always the best anwer. My only experience with sex was being a young guy getting coerced into it on my high school graduation day. It wasn't pleasant and I've dreaded doing it again since.
So I'm like, not even supposed to be in this thread really. Shouldn't have taken a cheap shot at you, anon. Best of luck.
>>410153 >You always win, because you play for both teams. More like everyone hates you and treats you worse than a whore. It's like being biracial, neither race accepts you. Also bi people are 85-90% of the LGBT community, we're carrying all the water, doing the hard work.
>>410216 Yeah it was about how you can't say "cunt" on tv. We really do live in an Orwellian dystopia.
Seriously? Get off your high horse. Any societal change in attitude isn't some doublethink any more than it was when we agreed "nigger" wasn't ok. Then again, this being a 4chan offshoot, you probably think anyone who doesn't like it is some prissy normie, online or irl.
and no, you don't get to call trans people "it" either, you judgement-affected douche.
Everythings wrong with my dick, seems like its been caused by a lifetime of daily masturbation
The head seems too dry even though uncut, have a lack of sensitivity that is most obvious during sex when even thrusting away or getting head don't feel much, even when I'm masturbating it takes too long and near the end have to seriously crank it with maximum effort to even finish which is way too much of a struggle (fairly unfit, though I've been doing extra walking and short bursts of jogging for awhile now just to keep things moving, apparently my heart is in fine/good shape according to the docs)
Don't even seriously care about having sex again beyond minor urges (for a basic=degree of intimate physical affection?) since its never been that great, just hate my dick getting worn out.
I feel bad for the sex workers during the time of the pandemic.
Alot of businesses are suffering or going under because of the situation, and their job involves getting very intimately entangled with a large amount of people. You can't really just wear masks and be ok in those circumstances.